Are you the polar opposite of the most confident girl in the room? When you see a guy you are attracted to, does your confidence make a speedy exit? Do you wonder why men are attracted to certain women even though they don’t look like a supermodel? Is your lack of confidence causing your love life to suffer? Relax; it’s happened to most people at one time or another. But there are ways to keep it from happening to you again and you can learn to be the most confident he’s ever seen.

Remember this. Confidence is sexy. Confidence attracts people. Confidence gives you an inner strength to be at ease in any situation. Confidence gives you an inner beauty that will shine through.

No where does it say that you have to be a great beauty or super skinny to exude confidence. Oprah Winfrey is not rail thin and it’s likely she hasn’t suffered from a lack of confidence for many, many years.

On the other hand, it doesn’t hurt to look your best at all times. You don’t have to have a designer’s wardrobe to look good. You just have to know what looks best on you. The right color, the right fabric and the right cut that brings out your best features will do wonders to making you feel and look fabulous. And when you feel great, don’t you feel like the most confident girl in the room?

Take time to pamper yourself a little. Eating right, getting some exercise and enough rest will not only help you feel good, it will help you look good. And don’t you feel more confident when you like the way you look?

Men love to run their fingers through a woman’s shiny, soft hair. So keep your hair clean and styled so that it looks like you want it to be touched. Too many styling products can make your hair look like a stiff or sticky mess. And who wants to touch that?

And it’s a fallacy that all men love long hair. While some do, just as many prefer hair that’s short and sexy. Think about it. Do you think any guy turned down Halle Berry when she had that super short hairdo?

Clean teeth, fresh breath and just a whiff of a soft fragrance also will help you to keep your confidence firmly in place. Reeking from cigarette smoke or too much perfume will make men (and everyone else) keep their distance.

Smile. It shows your warmth and approachability. Don’t stare, but maintain good eye contact. It shows you’re interested.

Remind yourself of the things that make you special. Are you kind? Funny? Intelligent? Talented? Great at your job? Whatever it is that makes you different and special should also give you confidence.

And being the most confident girl he ever saw will attract men like moths to a flame.

Source by Tina L. Jones

Desoto, TX 75115

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